I had the opportunity to attend a South Asian Weddings: UNVEILED Seminar produced by Jag Brar, owner and lead coordinator of my big day EVENT PLANNING & DESIGNS. A full day of learning about Sikh, Hindu and Muslim weddings and traditions (and let me tell you, there’s A LOT of traditions!). We learned how to tie a saree, makeup tips, mehndi application (i.e. henna); and graced with the presence of Bhangra dancers and a fashion show of traditonal outfits for the wedding, and a Gurdwara tour!
I haven’t attended a South Asian wedding yet (although I am attending next month, June!) and I wanted to learn as much as I could so I don’t embarass myself, as well as understand other religions when it comes to weddings… and perhaps gain some new clients by opening more doors!
ME IN A SAREE
And we’re not just talking about the traditional wedding ceremony & reception – we also have:
– pre-engagement rituals (and not just the standard asking the father of the bride for her hand in marriage; known as the thaka or roka)
– formal engagement rituals (more than just a dinner announcing your engagement — the bride and groom each have their own tradition; known as Mangni, Saggai or Kudmai and Chunni)
– pre-wedding ceremonies (example: mehndi or henna ceremony)
– ceremony (Anand Karaj)
– post ceremony rituals & reception
…So that’s why it last a few days!
Ultimately, the couple (i.e. YOU) can still include a modern touch to your wedding. You can change into a white gown if you wish and still throw your bouquet! It’s still a wedding, no matter what culture and religion.
Jewels & Head Piece
Bhangra Dancers
Traditional Outfits
Colour, colour, and more colour! Rare to see only a few colours during the ceremony: red, white, gold, yellow, pink, blue – you name it, you got it!
Mehndi (Henna) Application